Strength

People often think that the word "strength" that is tattooed on my ribs is meant for physical strength. Actually, it's not! I got the word "strength" tattooed on me to remind myself to always stay mentally strong. Throughout my 32 years on this earth, some crazy shit has happened...ha! Abusive alcoholic step-father, my brothers car accident, my mom's death to name a few....all had to be dealt with in a strong mental state. Sometimes you can't change the situation but you can control how you handle it. And sometimes you can try & take all the negative stuff & find the positive in it. Abusive alcoholic step-dad? Never let a man mistreat you. Brothers car accident? Never take for granted the simple task's of everyday life. My moms death? Try and show gratitude & love....even if it makes you vulnerable. So, when something shitty happens that is out of my control, I try very hard to process the situation & focus on what I can do to take something positive from it. Don't get me wrong, sometimes I break down & cry...actually I think that's healthy & can only help make you even more "strong" but most of the time I try and move forward with positive thoughts. You are only as strong physically as you are mentally...does that make sense? :)