Friendship is a lot like dating. Sometimes when you meet someone new you get so excited about them, spend a lot of time with them, talk to them constantly, share private stuff about yourself with them. You are so thrilled about this new person in your life....and then sometimes, as time progresses, you don't really like that person or their characteristic's the more you get to know them. The friendship ends. And you know what!? That is ok! It's healthy. For a little while I was concerned, because I had a few friendships that ended. And I started to question if it was something with me & it made me upset. But then I started really thinking about it. The friendships that ended....what was I gaining out of this particular relationship? Yes, there was a lot of great things about these people. Why else would I have started a friendship with them if they were not good people? But...upon further reflection I realized it just wasn't a good fit! Yes...same as dating :) I have a few friends that I've been friends with since freshman year of high school (Kerri, Jenn, Michelle & Kelly) & we are ALL in different paths of our lives. Ok, well, maybe it's just me.... :-/ haha ! They are all mothers & I am still single. Sometimes it's hard to "relate" but what I have noticed with them is they always ask me about Muay Thai. Not because they love the sport, like I do, but because they know how important it is to me AND (here's the important part) they see what a positive influence it has had on my life. I certainly cannot relate to what it is like to be a mother. But I still LOVE seeing pictures & hearing their stories. And they love hearing stories about my dating life. And then I have my girlfriends Sharlene, Chrissy & Veronica...they are not Mother's but still completely different than myself. I enjoy all of these friendships a lot. They all teach me more about myself & introduce me to something new. I'm constantly learning more about them & myself along the way.
So, I guess what my point is about this friendship blog, is that just because you have become friends with someone, it doesn't mean it has to last forever. And if the friendship ends, it's ok but if you are lucky enough to have a friend that is supportive in your life and encourages you with your passions....those are the ones to keep forever! I know that if I haven't spoken to any of these girls in a month or so...I can depend on them to pick up right where we left off, without any hard feelings. Those are the ones that have a little piece in my heart.